Rejected Without Feedback? Here’s What Hiring Managers Won’t Tell You.

Sarabjeet Sachar

Founder & CEO, Aspiration l Career Development & Leadership Coach

April 15, 2025

Sarabjeet Sachar

Rejected Without Feedback? Here’s What Hiring Managers Won’t Tell You.

You’ve done your research, prepared for the interview, and answered every question with confidence. Maybe the hiring manager even smiled and said, “We’ll get back to you soon.” And then? A generic rejection email. No explanation, no constructive feedback, just a cold “Thank you for your time.” Sound familiar?

For most job seekers, this can be incredibly frustrating. Without feedback, how do you know what went wrong? What should you improve? Or was it just bad luck? Let’s break it down.

Why Companies Don’t Provide Feedback

While you might expect a detailed reason for rejection, the reality is different. Here’s why hiring managers often avoid giving feedback:

  1. Legal and HR Constraints – Companies fear lawsuits or conflicts if candidates challenge their feedback. A simple “You weren’t a good fit” is legally safer.
  2. Time Limitations – Recruiters handle hundreds of applications. Giving personalized feedback to every rejected candidate is unrealistic.
  3. Internal Decisions – Sometimes, the rejection has nothing to do with your performance. Internal hires, budget cuts, or shifting priorities might be the real reason.
  4. Vague Reasons – Maybe the hiring team didn’t feel you were the right “culture fit,” but that’s hard to articulate without sounding subjective.
  5. Under pressure from hiring managers – Maybe they found a more suitable candidate and became occupied with the process of closing with an offer as they were under pressure from the hiring manager.

What You Can Do About It

Now, let’s shift from frustration to action. While you may not always get feedback, here’s how you can improve your chances of understanding what went wrong.

1. Ask the Right Way

If you receive a rejection email, don’t just accept it and move on—but also, don’t demand an explanation. Instead, frame your request thoughtfully:

Example Email: Subject: Thank You & Request for Feedback

Hi [Interviewer’s Name],

Thank you for the opportunity to interview for [Job Title] at [Company Name]. I appreciate the time and effort you and your team took to meet with me.

While I understand that you’ve chosen to move forward with another candidate, I’d love to improve for future opportunities. If there’s any specific feedback you can share about my interview or areas of improvement, I’d be truly grateful. I understand time constraints and appreciate any brief insights you can provide.

Looking forward to staying in touch, and I hope to cross paths again in the future.

Best regards, [Your Name]

2. Focus on Self-Analysis

Since feedback isn’t always possible, take control of your own evaluation. Ask yourself:

  • Did I effectively communicate my strengths?
  • Did I give clear examples of my past achievements?
  • Was I genuinely excited about the role, or did I seem unsure?
  • Did I research the company well enough and align my answers with their values?

Sometimes, recording yourself answering common interview questions and reviewing your tone, clarity, and confidence can reveal areas of improvement.

3. Seek External Feedback

If companies won’t provide insights, turn to mentors, career coaches, or even peers who can do a mock interview with you. A fresh perspective can highlight gaps you didn’t notice.

4. Expand Your Job Search Strategy

Rejections (especially without feedback) can feel demotivating, but sometimes, the best approach is to diversify your job search strategy. Instead of applying only through portals, leverage:

  • Networking: Connect with industry professionals on LinkedIn. Sometimes, referrals make all the difference.
  • Direct Outreach: If you admire a company, reach out even if no job is posted.
  • Upskilling: If certain rejections are due to lacking a specific skill, consider short courses or certifications.

Final Thoughts: Rejections Are Redirections

Not getting feedback doesn’t mean you’re not good enough. It means the company made a decision that, in most cases, is beyond your control. The key is to focus on what you can control—your skills, your preparation, and your approach.

A rejection is not the end of the road. It’s a sign to refine, improve, and move forward. The next opportunity might just be the right one for you.

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2 thoughts on “Rejected Without Feedback? Here’s What Hiring Managers Won’t Tell You.”

  1. It’s an effective article.
    To the recruiter feedback my personal observation is one of point:-
    The recruiter are most of time passing the time of recruitment as they might have following thought process:-
    a) Pre fixed candidature,
    b) Unwilling to pass the CTC facility,
    c) Unwilling to fill the vacancy,
    d) Avoiding to accept the right candidate,
    e) Fear of getting an candidate superior to hiring hirarchy.

    The list is still more.

    Thanks & Regards .

    Reply
    • Hi Rajesh!
      Thanks for your input which I appreciate. One has to look at things which are under our control and those which are not.

      Something which is under the candidate’s control is learning from the experience, fine-tuning the approach , strengthening your own value proposition and continuing to network. Become unstoppable .

      Because there are so many variables within the company and as a job seeker one does not have control over those; but if you improve on the things that I mentioned which are under our control, our hit rate can certainly improve.

      Trust that gives you a better perspective.

      Reply

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